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Emotional Stress and Bullying

Emotional stress and bullying

Emotional stress and bullying

Emotional stress and bullying

 

Several people have experienced firsthand the emotional stress of being bullied.  As Namie and Namie report (2009) bullying happens to about 37% of the workforce.  Yelling, insults and a constant barrage of disrespect can make any one feel overwhelmed with stress.    Medical studies show that constant emotional stress can clinically be bad for your health. Dr. Ilan Wittstein of Johns Hopkins  University confirms that emotional stress can indeed release stress hormones to the heart and lead to symptoms that mimic a heart attack. The condition is called ‘broken heart’ syndrome.  The body is designed to have a fight or flight response under stress.  However at work, fighting is not the appropriate option, neither is flight (or walking off the job).  Therefore, the target of bullying is trapped, with stress hormones potentially pouring into his or her system, literally causes heart problems.  Other systems of stress include weight swings, moods swings, hair loss and restless sleep.

 

What can someone do?

1. First and foremost, strive to protect your health.  If you are feeling stress symptoms, seek medical help and have the doctor clearly document what is causing the stress.

2. Read the HR manual.  Many organizations have anti bullying policies along with the anti-harassment and anti-retaliation polices.

3. Seek support from friends and family.  Often targets become overwhelmed with the stress and isolate themselves.  Support from friends and family can help the target think clearly about healthy next steps.

4. Keep a journal.  Documenting the times and places of the bullying can create a record your performance slips under the stress of a bully.

The Bully in the Ivory Tower

The Bully  in the Ivory Tower

The Bully  in the Ivory Tower

The Bully  in the Ivory Tower

 

Bullying was once labeled as the childhood rite of passage; something we endure on the playground. However, it has transcended from the playground to the work ground. Bullying on the work ground is pervasive, escalating hostility and berating behavior that is exhibited in mistreatment on the job. The bully on the work grounds can make any organization a toxic workplace environment.  Bullying is similar to harassment, making the subject the target of escalating, demeaning and damaging behavior.  However, harassment is when the target is from a protected class (facing discrimination because of gender, race, religious, national origin or disability); bullying, on the other hand is a class free assault on the target.  The former is illegal under the Title VII Civil Rights laws; the latter, bullying, is still legal in the United States.

In the last five years, studies have been conducted which reflect on workplace bullying.  Namie & Namie of the Workplace Bullying Institute studied 7,740 adults nationally in 2007 and reported that 37% of American workers have faced bullying on the job.  Women are more likely to be the target of bullying and female targets tend to quit the job 45% of the time.  Further, when employers are made aware of the bullying, 62% of the time, the situation escalates for the target or nothing happens (Namie & Namie 2009).  Disengagement and turnover caused by bullying costs American corporations over $64 billion (yes with a B) a year.

Further, there are several studies which reveal bullying characteristics in our secondary schools.  Of late, tragic stories have come forward of students who have reached out for help to stem bullying at school.  Students who emerge from an alternative life style, are overweight, or from different religions tend to be the targets of school yard bullying. Some children have lost hope and tragically taken their own lives for relief.  The response has been to pass particularly stringent anti- bullying laws in education, with New Jersey having the toughest anti- bullying laws in the country.

This discussion, however, whether workplace bullying, or school yard bullying, misses the application to higher education.  The Ivory Tower is supposed to emerge from intellect and enlightenment, showing the way to the American dream through education.  However, if the higher education sector is a subset of American culture, it would seem the shadows of bullying would fall even here.  Consequently, the structure of higher education is dissimilar from corporate structures given the tenure track system, the reliance of scholarship, and reason which philosophically might not be tied to quarterly balance sheets. Subsequently, bullying would manifest in ways yet examined by previous studies.  The result of a disengaged higher education staff, or faculty could have a direct impact on the academy’s function of enrollment, scholarship, advancement and student matriculation.

I would also argue that the casualties of bullying in higher education are not just the immediate target, but the students we strive to serve. Imagine teaching a class after being bullied.  The emotional capital required to connect with students has been spent on defending against the bully. Student service administrators need to focus to advise students, guide students, and serve students, as many students come to our campus with previously identified chronic issues themselves.  The bullied student service administrator has also spent his or her emotional capital surviving a toxic work environment, and potentially has precious little energy to invest in students.  Invariably, when I speak with my colleagues in higher education, most have commented on the disappointment they endure when realizing that bullying has invaded their departments.  Some of these colleagues admit that they just don’t have the energy for a new project, refreshing ideas and student engagement.  They are emotionally exhausted while trying to make it through another disrespectful day in the academy.

While bullying is still legal, it is clearly destructive.  Higher education, like many other sectors, suffer from bullying advances and will continue to endure such without proper policies and professional development to prevent bullying and hostility for all faculty and staff members.  Incivility in the academy doesn’t just affect university employees; it has a direct effect on the next generation of students that we influence through education.

 

Dr. Leah Hollis, a Martin Luther King Fellow, SED ’98, and 20 year veteran of higher education administration, is currently the president of Patricia Berkly LLC, a diversity training group in greater Philadelphia.  Her recent work includes trainings and webinars on discrimination and workplace hostility.


Constani and Gibbs (2004) Higher Education teacher and emotional labour. International Journal of Educational Management. 18. 4/5

 

Namie, G and Namie, R. (2009) The Bully at Work. What you can do to stop the hurt and reclaim your dignity at work. Sourcebooks. Napersville, IL.

Cyberbullying at work

 Cyberbullying at work

Cyberbullying at work

Cyberbullying at work

 

 

Is your networking naughty or nice?  Cyberbullying at work…

 

Businesses and all organizations are moving literally at the speed of light. Through the constant access with blackberries, smart phones and notebooks, we can communicate strategies and objectives on the fly and respond in seconds to threats or opportunities.  While we are LINKEDin, tweeting friends, and liking our space, the information we offer has an immediate impact on business, positive or negative.

Many small businesses are relying on that cyber shingle to attract potential clients to their websites.  The power of SEO, and social networking minimizes costs for the small business owner, and enables any organization to reach 100s of thousands of people from a desk top.  In addition to services, the power of cyber network allows for virtual and distance learning training opportunities and virtual meetings which eliminate costly travel time.

These networking tools were meant for good not evil; yet when malice enters the equation, cyber networking capabilities turn into a virtual nightmare for the target.  The power of the internet has been used to manipulate and harass employees.  

By definition found in the Megan Meier Cyber bullying Prevention Act;   Cyber bullying is when someone   “transmits in interstate or foreign commerce any communication, with the intent to coerce, intimidate, harass, or cause substantial emotional distress to a person, using electronic means to support severe, repeated, and hostile behavior, shall be fined under this title or imprisoned not more than two years, or both.”  While the term cyber bullying in many circles is applied to children and adolescents, bullying in any form in the workplace is destructive and costly to the organization.  Some estimates reveal that the bullying costs organization over $64 BILLION a year.

In the workplace, bullying online or cyber bullying includes circulating inappropriate pictures of the target, making fun of the target or telling inappropriate jokes in email.  More subtle forms of online bullying humiliate the target regarding a work situation; berate the person for job performance, or openly and rudely questioning the target’s expertise. These messages circulated through email and workplace electronic bulletin boards use technology to create a toxic workplace. When networking technology is used to hurt the target, the results are similar to on ground bullying.  The target faces emotional distress, withdraws from workplace activities and socialization.  Cyber bullying on the job creates anxiety for the target and the others witnessing or in this case reading the bullying behavior.  When an organization fails to stop cyber bullying, they in fact permit the inappropriate use of technology and harbor behavior which jeopardizes organizational productivity.

Just like any tool, networking has amazingly productive applications which can have a positive impact on the organization. However the negative application to bullying will generate costly turnover, and create a disengaged staff that spends more time avoiding the bully than concentrating on organizational business.

Solutions for organizations

  • Create a healthy work environment where cyber bullying or any other form of incivility is halted and prohibited by policy.
  • Have clear policies about privacy and misuse of technology. Even events that occurred outside of work, yet inappropriately broadcasting personal and private information are actionable offenses.
  • State clearly the acceptable use of facebook, twitter, LINKEDin or other internet based networking tools used for professional networking.
  • Train managers and supervisors how to handle cyber bullying and bullying to maintain a healthy workplace.

STOP! workplace bullying

 

STOP!  workplace bullying 

STOP!  workplace bullying 

STOP!  workplace bullying 

We might have thought bullying was one of those things we endure  as kids, but it is no coincidence that during a recession and season of budgets cuts, bullying has taken a serious foothold in schools and in the workplace.  Stressful situations breed workplace bullying as it triggers insecurity and the need to have absolute control in these stressful environments.  Ironically, the last thing a stressful situation needs is a bully who brings more stress to the environment.

Workplace bullying brings emotional and psychological attacks to staff who then spend time fending off the threat, instead of time focusing on being productive.  Why then don’t organizations crack down on workplace bullying if it is so destructive?
1. Workplace bullies are often the boss, welding control, even threatening targets with demotion or job loss if they don’t comply with unreasonable demands.

2. Organizations often protect their management- the workplace bully-, even when management is wrong, therefore targets subordinates quietly suffer and plan an escape instead of addressing the problem.

3. Staff often makes excuses and won’t address the workplace bully: there is not enough time, or not enough energy to address the toxic personality.

Patricia Berkly LLC offers some organizational solutions to help everyone maintain a healthy work environment and stop workplace bullying.  The time spent to put protective measures in place will help to maintain quality and productive employees.

1.   Establish a culture of zero tolerance with strong anti- workplace bullying policies.  Be clear about what behavior is acceptable and the steps the organization will take to protect itself from a workplace bully.

2.   Follow that policy.  Too often organizations craft wonderful policies, yet fail to follow them, or apply them inconsistently.  This allows workplace bullying to flourish.

3.   Offer regular and consistent training to address workplace bullying.  With natural attrition, any staff needs training.  Such training will also empower staff as a whole to address workplace bullying as the grassroots level.

4.   Establish information interviews with staff as a standard operating procedure to stamp out workplace bullying.  In addition to other aspects of the operation which need attention, this standard procedure could also uncover incivility in your workplace.

Protecting your organization from workplace bullying is everyone’s responsibility.

 

Avoiding Bullies in the Executive Talent Acquisition Process

Avoiding Bullies in the Executive Talent Acquisition Process

 

Avoiding Bullies in the Executive Talent Acquisition Process

Avoiding Bullies in the Executive Talent Acquisition Process 

ORIGINALLY POSTED in www.ere.net

 

There’ve been comments about how the role of the HR professional is to protect the organization, not the individual. Whether the complaint is regarding budgets, restructuring, or harassment, HR staff members are typically charged with being the facilitator who shields the organization through tumultuous times. Aligning with the mission of serve and protect the organization, recruiters can be a front line which can prevent the bully from invading a workplace environment.

Different workplace arenas tend to attract different personality types. While educators and social organizations tend to attract those with “helping” personalities, corporate cultures tend to reward a more “assertive” personality.

With this in mind, recruiters can keep an eye out for the appropriate personalities for open positions, as well as learn some of the characteristics of a bully, ultimately avoiding recruiting them into an organization in the first place.

With corporate culture in mind, recruiters should be cognizant of the impact a bully can have on any organization. Bullying is a silent epidemic which is infecting many organizations; insightful recruiting can help stop bullying before it starts. Much of the information on workplace bullying confirms that the bully is the boss 72% of the time. Bullies are equal opportunity players, both men and women. While the shiny new executive needs to have the stamina and confidence to manage staff and execute strategy, the new executive also needs to be a leader that staff can follow.

People vote with their feet in organizations, not their mouths. Staff will not speak up against the newly recruited bully boss. Recruiters will find themselves in a heavy recruiting cycle when good people flee a toxic environment, crushed under the weight of the highly touted new bully boss. When an organization truly considers the cost of turnover, it should be motivated to stop the bullying problem before it starts, especially when most bullies are the boss.

Statistics show that 25% of the people bullied and 20% of those who witness bullying will leave the organization. Further, very conservative estimates show that for each person who leaves the organization, the organization loses at least 30% of that salary. A recent study on incivility documents that 53% of a workforce loses time worrying about a bullying incident or preparing how to avoid a bully. In this environment, 46% of staff lacked civility or thought about leaving; 10% of the staff actually left the organization, according to a book called, “The Cost of Bad Behavior: how incivility is damaging your business and what to do about it.”

So let’s do some math. Imagine your company has 35,000 people, and for the sake of this discussion their median income is $58,000. Add an ogre of a boss into the situation and 10% of the people actually leave. With the aforementioned statistical data, 350 people leave to escape the stress of a toxic environment. If 350 leave, and their median salary was $58,000, annual salary for this group is roughly $20.3 million. The 30% it cost to recruit, retrain, and replace these people is just over $6 million. These estimates of loss do not include the 53% of staff who lost productivity worrying about bullying events.

Recruiting and harboring a bully is expensive. These numbers are the result of hiring that high-priced bullying executive, who winds up chasing off your creative and productive staff.

And let’s be clear: it is the innovative and high-performing staff that flees. The mediocre staff simply becomes disengaged and collects a paycheck in a toxic environment. As bullying is the silent epidemic, draining organizations of already dwindling resources, the recruiting process can be the first stop on a list of processes and interventions which can protect a healthy work environment. Even first-rate companies need to continue to be on guard for loss due to bullying and incivility. Cisco, a group recognized as a particularly civil place, ranking in the Top 100 great places to work, has documented losses to bullies. By their own estimates, over $8 million has been lose to lacking productivity and turn over attributed to incivility. Therefore, recruiters should:

  1. Try to recognize potential bullies in the interview process. A bully is typically a good performer in the interview because he or she seeks to control the situation. However, interview procedures which include informal lunches, or tours, are opportunities to relax the recruited candidate and listen to his or her stories. Do they brag about “cracking the whip” or “cleaning house” in their last position? While restructuring might be necessary, a bully might take pleasure in asserting this control without empathizing with the impact on those staff members let go. Does the candidate make comments about being frustrated with staff and brag about coercive tactics? Does the candidate ever show genuine empathy or concern for previous subordinates? Often a bully doesn’t realize he or she is a bully, and will often talk about his or her behavior.
  2. Maintain relationships that are a critical part of the process, and know the culture that you are recruiting for. Knowing the culture can keep an unsuspecting recruiter from bringing a bully into your midst. If you know the corporate culture does not support shrinking violets, then don’t bring in a weak personality who can end up being a target. Even a Harvard MBA cannot compensate for a personality that will not weather an assertive corporate environment.
  3. Know how the company receives aggressive and assertive personalities. If the organization thrives on a vibe that is more like “Clash of the Titans,” bring in that assertive type. But if the organization is already facing high turnover, a shifting culture, or limited resources and RIFs which makes for a nervous staff, recruiting a barracuda in to “whip people into shape” might be exactly what you don’t want. Protect that culture with recruiting the right people — civil people. Internal recruiters might know their corporate culture; external recruiters should be able to give examples of how they understand a specific corporate culture and give specifics regarding that culture.
  4. Conduct a thorough vetting process and avoid the “post-and-pray” approach. Each leader has a record of good behavior, turnover, complaints, or accolades. In the vetting process, determine if this shiny new star had longevity in his or her staff who reported to him. Ask objective questions about the candidate’s strategies to motivate his or her previous staff. Did the strategies include respectful strategies, or coercion?
  5. Engage in proper onboarding procedures. Aggressive and assertive behavior relative to achieving objectives is good. Bullying away the productive people in the division is bad. Include anti-bullying policies in the onboarding process, and have such rules of civility discussed by the division head, even if via podcast or brief webinar. Stop the destructive behavior before it starts and protect the environment. Make it clear to the recruit throughout the process and at the point of hire that incivility will not be tolerated.
  6. Understand that workplace bullying can result in a complaint to human resources and/or an EEOC complaint. A savvy target of the bullying can find EEOC laws or a human resources policy to bring the situation to the forefront with a verbal or written complaint. These complaints often fall under categories of harassment — i.e., age, gender, and sexual. A harassment complaint, even an internal complaint, is costly and time consuming.

Work is tough enough as it is. Further, a new boss introduced into any environment will naturally invite questions or concerns from staff. If the new hire is properly vetted out, and also coached that the work culture is one of civility and will not tolerate bullying, the recruiter and the rest of HR staff are in a better position to reap the rewards of a productive organization, than to constantly recruit replacements for those fleeing a hostile environment. When an organization loses $30,000 to $100,000 for each target who is bullied, the organizational damages have an impact on everyone, as documented in an SHRM book called “Stop Bullying at Work.” If recruitment strategies can stop a bully from entering a new workplace, such strategies can save any organization millions of dollars.