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Avoiding Bullies in the Executive Talent Acquisition Process

Avoiding Bullies in the Executive Talent Acquisition Process

 

Avoiding Bullies in the Executive Talent Acquisition Process

Avoiding Bullies in the Executive Talent Acquisition Process 

ORIGINALLY POSTED in www.ere.net

 

There’ve been comments about how the role of the HR professional is to protect the organization, not the individual. Whether the complaint is regarding budgets, restructuring, or harassment, HR staff members are typically charged with being the facilitator who shields the organization through tumultuous times. Aligning with the mission of serve and protect the organization, recruiters can be a front line which can prevent the bully from invading a workplace environment.

Different workplace arenas tend to attract different personality types. While educators and social organizations tend to attract those with “helping” personalities, corporate cultures tend to reward a more “assertive” personality.

With this in mind, recruiters can keep an eye out for the appropriate personalities for open positions, as well as learn some of the characteristics of a bully, ultimately avoiding recruiting them into an organization in the first place.

With corporate culture in mind, recruiters should be cognizant of the impact a bully can have on any organization. Bullying is a silent epidemic which is infecting many organizations; insightful recruiting can help stop bullying before it starts. Much of the information on workplace bullying confirms that the bully is the boss 72% of the time. Bullies are equal opportunity players, both men and women. While the shiny new executive needs to have the stamina and confidence to manage staff and execute strategy, the new executive also needs to be a leader that staff can follow.

People vote with their feet in organizations, not their mouths. Staff will not speak up against the newly recruited bully boss. Recruiters will find themselves in a heavy recruiting cycle when good people flee a toxic environment, crushed under the weight of the highly touted new bully boss. When an organization truly considers the cost of turnover, it should be motivated to stop the bullying problem before it starts, especially when most bullies are the boss.

Statistics show that 25% of the people bullied and 20% of those who witness bullying will leave the organization. Further, very conservative estimates show that for each person who leaves the organization, the organization loses at least 30% of that salary. A recent study on incivility documents that 53% of a workforce loses time worrying about a bullying incident or preparing how to avoid a bully. In this environment, 46% of staff lacked civility or thought about leaving; 10% of the staff actually left the organization, according to a book called, “The Cost of Bad Behavior: how incivility is damaging your business and what to do about it.”

So let’s do some math. Imagine your company has 35,000 people, and for the sake of this discussion their median income is $58,000. Add an ogre of a boss into the situation and 10% of the people actually leave. With the aforementioned statistical data, 350 people leave to escape the stress of a toxic environment. If 350 leave, and their median salary was $58,000, annual salary for this group is roughly $20.3 million. The 30% it cost to recruit, retrain, and replace these people is just over $6 million. These estimates of loss do not include the 53% of staff who lost productivity worrying about bullying events.

Recruiting and harboring a bully is expensive. These numbers are the result of hiring that high-priced bullying executive, who winds up chasing off your creative and productive staff.

And let’s be clear: it is the innovative and high-performing staff that flees. The mediocre staff simply becomes disengaged and collects a paycheck in a toxic environment. As bullying is the silent epidemic, draining organizations of already dwindling resources, the recruiting process can be the first stop on a list of processes and interventions which can protect a healthy work environment. Even first-rate companies need to continue to be on guard for loss due to bullying and incivility. Cisco, a group recognized as a particularly civil place, ranking in the Top 100 great places to work, has documented losses to bullies. By their own estimates, over $8 million has been lose to lacking productivity and turn over attributed to incivility. Therefore, recruiters should:

  1. Try to recognize potential bullies in the interview process. A bully is typically a good performer in the interview because he or she seeks to control the situation. However, interview procedures which include informal lunches, or tours, are opportunities to relax the recruited candidate and listen to his or her stories. Do they brag about “cracking the whip” or “cleaning house” in their last position? While restructuring might be necessary, a bully might take pleasure in asserting this control without empathizing with the impact on those staff members let go. Does the candidate make comments about being frustrated with staff and brag about coercive tactics? Does the candidate ever show genuine empathy or concern for previous subordinates? Often a bully doesn’t realize he or she is a bully, and will often talk about his or her behavior.
  2. Maintain relationships that are a critical part of the process, and know the culture that you are recruiting for. Knowing the culture can keep an unsuspecting recruiter from bringing a bully into your midst. If you know the corporate culture does not support shrinking violets, then don’t bring in a weak personality who can end up being a target. Even a Harvard MBA cannot compensate for a personality that will not weather an assertive corporate environment.
  3. Know how the company receives aggressive and assertive personalities. If the organization thrives on a vibe that is more like “Clash of the Titans,” bring in that assertive type. But if the organization is already facing high turnover, a shifting culture, or limited resources and RIFs which makes for a nervous staff, recruiting a barracuda in to “whip people into shape” might be exactly what you don’t want. Protect that culture with recruiting the right people — civil people. Internal recruiters might know their corporate culture; external recruiters should be able to give examples of how they understand a specific corporate culture and give specifics regarding that culture.
  4. Conduct a thorough vetting process and avoid the “post-and-pray” approach. Each leader has a record of good behavior, turnover, complaints, or accolades. In the vetting process, determine if this shiny new star had longevity in his or her staff who reported to him. Ask objective questions about the candidate’s strategies to motivate his or her previous staff. Did the strategies include respectful strategies, or coercion?
  5. Engage in proper onboarding procedures. Aggressive and assertive behavior relative to achieving objectives is good. Bullying away the productive people in the division is bad. Include anti-bullying policies in the onboarding process, and have such rules of civility discussed by the division head, even if via podcast or brief webinar. Stop the destructive behavior before it starts and protect the environment. Make it clear to the recruit throughout the process and at the point of hire that incivility will not be tolerated.
  6. Understand that workplace bullying can result in a complaint to human resources and/or an EEOC complaint. A savvy target of the bullying can find EEOC laws or a human resources policy to bring the situation to the forefront with a verbal or written complaint. These complaints often fall under categories of harassment — i.e., age, gender, and sexual. A harassment complaint, even an internal complaint, is costly and time consuming.

Work is tough enough as it is. Further, a new boss introduced into any environment will naturally invite questions or concerns from staff. If the new hire is properly vetted out, and also coached that the work culture is one of civility and will not tolerate bullying, the recruiter and the rest of HR staff are in a better position to reap the rewards of a productive organization, than to constantly recruit replacements for those fleeing a hostile environment. When an organization loses $30,000 to $100,000 for each target who is bullied, the organizational damages have an impact on everyone, as documented in an SHRM book called “Stop Bullying at Work.” If recruitment strategies can stop a bully from entering a new workplace, such strategies can save any organization millions of dollars.

 

Workplace Bullying Lessons

Workplace Bullying Lessons

Workplace Bullying Lessons

Workplace Bullying Lessons

 

 

Diversity makes a difference
Remember this 1964 Burl Ives Classic remake of Rudolf the Red Nosed Reindeer? He has some bullying lessons for us? He was that cute little guy who was banished to the island of misfit toys because of his red nose, all a target of bullying. While many of us grew up on this Christmas fable, this story and others taught youngsters, and then adults, that picking on the different kid… that bullying was all right, just part of growing up. The rite of passage was bullying for many. In this charming story, Rudolf eventually prevails when he saves Christmas Eve, despite being rejected and a constant target of bullying.

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Embrace your Rudolfs

However at work, bullying and picking on different staff can not only create turnover, it can cost organizations close to $64 billion a year. YES! with a B— bullying costs in the BILLIONS.  Bullying, which includes excluding people from meetings, lunches, and social functions, is not child’s play. This bullying behavior affects 37% of the workplace, and has often been deemed the silent epidemic. What is ironic, it is the diversity in thinking and talents that makes for innovation. Bullying kills this innovation.  Bullying creates a non productive environment.  Bullying at work destroys the office culture. If Rudolf was not different with his red nose, he couldn’t save the day. Similarly, people with different ideas create wonderful solutions in Facebook, cell phones, art, cooking, and in business.  If they were busy fighting off bullying, they would spend more time defending themselves from bullying and less time creating. The lessons learned include: embrace your Rudolfs. Curtail workplace bullying and allow innovation to flourish.

Patricia Berkly LLC on the Move

Patricia Berkly LLC on the Move


Patricia Berkly LLC on the Move

Patricia Berkly LLC on the Move

Fall is a traditional time to get back in the swing of things with the beginning of the school year and people returning from vacation. Subsequently, the fall has been quite hectic for Dr. Leah Hollis, President of Patricia Berkly, LLC. In early fall, Dr. Hollis was featured on WBZN to discuss her book UNEQUAL OPPORTUNITY. Also, Dr. Hollis was featured with Coach Ron Tunick from Ventura, CA. The Pacific Coast drive time radio show informed listeners on how to be on the lookout for discriminatory behavior in the workplace. Later in September, Dr. Hollis visited St. Francis University to offer diversity training for staff and students. Workshops included “Inclusive Curriculum” and “The Intersection of Bullying and Diversity” for the athletic department. Her busy day culminated with a lecture: “Changing Agents: Innovators, leadership and diversity management.”

September also included a visit to the business owners at the Lions Club in Flemington, NJ to discuss “The Perfect Storm: Retaliation in the Workplace.” The most recent EEOC statistics again reveal that retaliation was the leading complaint area in 2011, surpassing race and gender discrimination complaints. Visit the Patricia Berkly LLC YOU TUBE Channel for lectures and other critical information on workplace discrimination.

Later the same month, Dr. Hollis also visited with the PA- NOW Conference in greater Philadelphia to present “Care for the Caregiver.” As the EEOC advises, gender discrimination is not just about being discriminated against because of gender, but also due to the care giving duties typically assigned to women.

The fall continued with a hectic schedule for Dr. Hollis as she presented “Up to Date- Out of Court: Five Updates every employer should know.” Her legal update of Supreme Court cases was provided through the Johnstown Chamber for Commerce for HRCI credits for Human Resources professional in the Laurel Highlands. The same weekend, Dr. Hollis presented a lecture for the SUPER SIXTY of Richland High School and their parents. In these tough economic times, Dr. Hollis conveyed her message of positive imagery and optimism to actualize goals and objectives. October concluded with a national webinar on Workplace Bullying and Employee Engagement. Participants attended from corporations and higher education to learn more on this critical topic plaguing the workplace. Through the year, Dr. Hollis has addressed the topic of bullying, harassment and discrimination. While bullying is technically legal, it is costly and debilitating to any organization. Visit the Patricia Berkly LLC YouTube Channel for lectures and other critical information on work place discrimination.

November will continue with a busy schedule as Dr. Hollis makes a second appearance on the Jim Blasingame Show from Alabama to discus workplace bullying. She also authored “Avoiding Bullies in the Executive Talent Acquisition Process for Todd Raphael of ERE.net. With events planned in late December, and Spring 2012, Leah Hollis of Patricia Berkly LLC has been on the move!

Cyber Bullying: Virtually bad behavior

Cyber Bullying: Virtually bad behavior

 

Cyber Bullying: Virtually bad behavior

 

Cyber Bullying: Virtually bad behavior

Cyber Bullying is the growing problem facing our schools.  Cyber Bullying targets students who are perceived as weaker, different, or less aggressive.  As a result cyber bullying drives many children to desperate decisions and cyber bullying even leads to suicide.

Recently, the state of New Jersey has addressed bullying and cyber bullying in its schools.  There is a zero tolerance for bullying and cyber bullying.  Recently, Anderson Cooper address bullying and cyber bullying.  Many children don’t tell their parents they are the target of cyber bullying.

As the saying goes, much of what we know, we learn in kindergarten.  Unfortunately, that means the learned behavior of bullying and cyber bullying comes to the workplace.  Just as bullies target those who are perceived as being weaker, different or less aggressive, workplace bullies have the same pattern, using cyber bullying in person bullying and other tactics of bad behavior to control employees. Often bosses are the perpetrators.  Also, women are more often the target of workplace bullying.

Further, just as school districts are becoming more litigious to deal with bullying and cyber bullying, many organizations are also developing anti- bullying polices, which would also address cyber bullying.  Bullying and cyber bullying in the workplace create an unengaged staff, create personal and emotional problems for the target, and can lead to a formal legal complaint.  When women, religious minorities and racial minorities are the targets of bullying and cyber bullying at work, the organization can be on the hook for a Title VII harassment case.

Bullying and cyber bullying are perhaps the unfortunate manifestations of a particularly tense time in our history.  With unemployment rates still above 9%, with family frustrations growing due to threats to fiscal stability, adults and children might act out through bullying and cyber bulling as a way to control another wise unstable situation.  Regardless of the reason, bullying and cyber bullying is not only hurtful to schools and young students,   bullying and cyber bullying are particularly costly behaviors for organizations to ignore.  Proper policy implementation can address bullying and cyber bullying, allowing for organizations to protect their employees

Stress and bullying go hand in hand…

Stress and bullying go hand in hand…

Stress and bullying go hand in hand…

Stress and bullying go hand in hand…

We might have thought bullying was one of those things we endure as kids, but it is no coincidence that during a recession and season of budgets cuts, bullying has taken a serious foothold in schools and in the workplace. Stressful situations breed bullies as it triggers insecurity and the need to have absolute control in these stressful environments. Ironically, the last thing a stressful situation needs is a bully who brings more stress to the environment.

Bullies bring emotional and psychological attacks to staff who then spend time fending off the threat, instead of time focusing on being productive. Why then don’t organizations crack down on bullies if they are so destructive?

1. Bullies are often the boss, welding control, even threatening targets with demotion or job loss if they don’t comply with
unreasonable demands.

2. Organizations often protect their management, even when management is wrong, therefore targets subordinates quietly suffer and plan an escape instead of addressing the problem.

3. Staff often makes excuses: there is not enough time, or not enough energy to address the toxic personality.

Patricia Berkly LLC offers some organizational solutions to help everyone maintain a healthy work environment. The time spent to put protective measures in place will help to maintain quality and productive employees.

1. Establish a culture of zero tolerance with strong anti-bullying policies. Be clear about what behavior is acceptable and the steps the organization will take to protect itself from a bully

2. Follow that policy. Too often organizations craft wonderful policies, yet fail to follow them, or apply them inconsistently.

3. Offer regular and consistent training. With natural attrition, any staff needs training. Such training will also empower staff as a whole to address bullying as the grassroots level.

4. Establish information interviews with staff as a standard operating procedure. In addition to other aspects of the operation
which need attention, this standard procedure could also uncover incivility in your workplace.

Protecting your organization from bullying is everyone’s responsibility. For more information, visit Leah Hollis, the President
and Founder of Patricia Berkly LLC a diversity training and consulting group. Dr. Hollis has conducted several lectures and
assisted clients with this issue. Her group is at www.diversitytrainingconsultants.com –